How to Develop the Writing Habit—Even if You Don’t Have Time to Write

by Melinda on July 28, 2010

You know the feeling you get when you go to bed without brushing your teeth? I’m not talking about that slimy-mouth feeling the following morning, but the feeling that you’ve forgotten something, like your day isn’t complete. This feeling can be so powerful that it gets you back out of bed. Habits are like that; regardless of what it is, you can’t wrap up the day without doing it.

Now imagine the same feeling about your writing: your day doesn’t feel complete without it. Even on your busiest days, you make the time to write a little. Otherwise, you just don’t feel good about the day. When you want to write a book, finding the time is often the most difficult challenge. I know, because although I write for a living, I still have trouble fitting my writing in. Work, kids, vacuuming, and everything else get in the way. But no matter how exhausted I am, I at least make time to write in my journal for a few minutes before turning off the light. Making writing a habit means you find a way to squeeze it in, no matter how busy you are.

When you make writing a habit, you not only find the time to write and get more done, but writing also gets easier. The words come more naturally, and you spend less time staring at the dreaded blank screen. The following simple steps can help you write more often and get better results.

1. Commit to Your Writing
When it comes to time, no one ever has enough to accomplish everything they would like. And, honestly, you’ll never have time to write your book unless you make it a top priority. There’s a difference between things we’d like to do, and things we must do. If you MUST write your book, then you’ll find the time to make it happen. If it’s something you’d LIKE to do someday, then someday may never come.

2. Write Every Day
Developing a habit means doing something regularly. Therefore you should do your best to find time to write every day. It doesn’t have to be a long period of time, even fifteen minutes will do if that’s all you can spare. The key is to practice as often as possible!

3. Write Small Pieces
Books are written one sentence at a time, so don’t fall into the trap of only sitting down to write when you have several hours at a time to devote to your work. Even if you only have time to put down a paragraph, that’s progress.

4. Don’t Stress About Writing
When you over-think your writing projects, they can seem bigger and more important . . . and much more intimidating than they really should be. Just sit down and write; don’t make a big deal out of it. Put your words on paper, and understand you’ll have time to clean them up later.

5. Be Accountable
Sometimes, despite all our efforts, even the writers with the best intentions need outside accountability to accomplish their goals. I know I do—I always have to find someone to keep me on track and make sure I do what I say I’m going to do. Whether you take a class or hire a coach or enlist the help of a firm and supportive friend, give yourself the structure you need to accomplish your goals.

Anyone who wants to write can do it, especially if you commit to your project and take steps to develop the writing habit. It doesn’t require hours of time every day—even jotting a few paragraphs in your journal every night will help get you hooked. And when you do, your skills will improve, and you’ll get all those projects on your writing to-do list done.

Comments? How do you build your writing habit?

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Stephanie Chandler July 28, 2010 at 1:06 pm

Great post, Melinda! Writing involves building and flexing a muscle. Writing regularly can only lead to better and better writing. I write every day, though I also have a habit of checking in to a hotel every six weeks or so and writing for a weekend. It’s fantastic and extremely productive!

Kathleen Gage July 28, 2010 at 8:39 pm

Excellent article and tips. I find I love writing so much that writing is simply a part of my life. And… I make my living by much of my writing so it’s nice when I can see the results of my passion.

Something that can help for those who are struggling is to block out an amount of time each day in which, no matter what, you write. The more you do this the easier it becomes.

Melinda July 29, 2010 at 7:44 am

Stephanie,
Thanks for commenting! Wow, I wish I could check into a hotel room every few months for a writing retreat! I’m going to work on that…
Melinda

Melinda July 29, 2010 at 7:49 am

Kathleen,
Thanks for commenting! I love to hear that writing is a part of your life. Once people get in the habit, it truly becomes something that they NEED and LOVE to do.

I agree that blocking a certain time each day is helpful. When I was in graduate school, I used to write for an hour every night after my son went to bed. I started looking forward to that time all day!

Thanks again for sharing!
Melinda

Ellen Brown August 3, 2010 at 12:02 pm

Wow, great post. I’ve spent most of my career, as a writer, but I love your tips, particularly number 2. Lately, it’s been a challenge to writer everyday, but your post was the gentle kick in the butt I needed, so thanks!

Melinda August 3, 2010 at 2:35 pm

Thanks for commenting, Ellen! I know I need to follow my own advice sometimes, particularly when it comes to non-work writing.
Melinda

Joe Castro August 12, 2010 at 5:55 pm

Write every day! People actually do that? My dad died a year ago on Memorial Day, at the reception following his funeral my youngest sister brought out his daily journal. He wrote every day for 35 years. What a gift to us who laughed and cried as he revealed his daily activities. We went to the days our children were born and he reminded us of our joy. This is my first Blog entry. You motivated me to write today. Thank you, Joe

Melinda August 17, 2010 at 1:57 pm

Yay, Joe! I’m glad you started writing! And thanks so much for sharing that story about your dad. I’m sure everyone would love to have such an intimate record of their loved ones’ thoughts. It’s something to cherish, for sure.

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